In continuing our series on discipline, today we approach a topic that many would not consider a discipline at all. Fellowship is considered a means by which God shows his grace to believers, but it is rarely considered something we have to discipline ourselves to do. If we take a careful look at what scripture says about fellowship, we will see that it is more than just meeting together on Sunday morning or once a week for a small group and desserts. Fellowship is truly something that we must work at as a body of believers in order for it to look the way that God intends it to be. The discipline side of fellowship involves not neglecting our time meeting together, humbling ourselves in order to be unified, and serving together and bearing one anothers burdens.
Not Neglecting our Responsibility to Each Other. The writer of Hebrews tells us “..let us consider how to stir up one another to love and good works, not neglecting to meet together, as is the habit of some, but encouraging one another, and all the more as you see the Day drawing near.” (Heb 10:24-25) This passage would hardly be necessary if it was not “the habit of some,” to walk away from fellowship and growing together in Christ. Here at Sunrise, our growth groups are meant to be that kind of fellowship. We are meeting together to grow and become more like Christ. We share our burdens and we serve each other cheerfully. Sunday mornings we Worship together and come to be built up by the pastor, but in small groups we are “stirring one another to love and good works.” It is very easy to neglect meeting with each other in small groups. Often our schedule conflicts, and things come up that interrupt our times together. We can’t always help things that get in the way of small groups, but don’t neglect meeting together. Make fellowship, whether in an organized small group, or one on one with an accountability partner, a priority.
Humbling ourselves for the sake of unity. Unity was an important theme for Paul in the early church. He saw a great divide between the Jews and the Gentiles that deeply hurt the fellowship of believers. While we do not frequently see the division of Messianic Jews and Gentiles in our church today, it is of vital importance to our fellowship that we be unified. In doing this, we must humble ourselves to ensure that we are looking out for the interests of each other. Paul writes to the Ephesians “I therefore, a prisoner for the Lord, urge you to walk in a manner worthy of the calling to which you have been called, with all humility and gentleness, with patience, bearing with one another in love, eager to maintain the unity of the Spirit in the bond of peace. There is one body and one Spirit – just as you were called to the one hope that belongs to your call.” (Eph 4:1-4) In this passage Paul encourages believers to put aside their differences and remember the one call that unites them, namely the salvation in Jesus Christ. As a body, we must be building each other up towards Christ and that requires that we humble ourselves and look towards the unifying Spirit and the salvation that God has granted us.
Serving together and Bearing each other’s Burdens. When we meet together frequently, and humble ourselves for the sake of unity, we can begin to serve one another faithfully and share the burdens that we bear. We are called to help each other in our spiritual growth. Paul encourages us “Brothers, if anyone is caught in any transgression, you who are spiritual should restore him in a spirit of gentleness. Keep watch on yourself, let you too be tempted. Bear one another’s burdens and so fulfill the law of Christ.” As we fellowship together we are to be disciplined in keeping each other moving towards Christ. We are to help restore each other when we are caught in transgressions. The law of Christ that we are fulfilling is found in the Great commandment. When we admonish one another, and bear each others burdens, we are loving God and we are loving our neighbors as ourselves.
To conclude, Fellowship is a discipline that is worthwhile for all of us. We each need to work at ensuring we are spending time with each other and that the time we do spend with each other is used for building up the body of Christ. Be devoted to Christ, be devoted to each other.


